The science of a good marriage equals happy marriages

Have you ever wondered what makes happy marriages? The answer is that happy marriages consist of a measurable balanced science. Let me explain.
If you've been reading along for a while you know that I love talking about love: pure, sacred, holy love that is heavenly and perfect. Love that is based on science, emotions, chemistry, mathematics - yes, it's not all about the feely touchy kind of love, which I would describe more as infatuation. I mean perfect love - we can have perfect love, if we understand what it is.

I hope this post is sufficient for something to switch or fall into place inside of your own head and understanding. You CAN have perfect love, we can have happy marriages. The science of a good marriage can create happy marriages. Here is how.
Science of a good marriage - Part 1

Because it's somewhat difficult to explain the science of a good marriage I created these illustration and hope they will explain that happy marriages don't happen by chance, they're a result of an exact science of a good marriage.

Look at my first illustration that shows the existence of most love relationships between men and women today. This is the worldly way we experience love. Most relationships start off with infatuation or sexual attraction and true love is really not present at all. When you add fire (sexual tension) to that relationship the energy has to go somewhere. Unfortunately most relationships are chemically and spiritually mismatched and so the energy gets trapped and the end result is both people feeling like they're banging their heads on a wall. Their energy gets squandered instead of transmuted into bliss.
She says: "I don't understand why he wont' change."
He says: "Nothing I ever do is good enough for her."
Whatever the complaints, it's the end result of mismatched chemical beings, resulting in chaos, divorce, unhappiness, lack of health, non-productivity and coming to the end of life having accomplished absolutely nothing of value. You see, the science of a good marriage is just like any other science. You break the rules and chemistry will give you whatever it is you have created. If you add hydrogen and oxygen you will get water. If you add hydrogen to peroxide how can you expect water? We are spiritual essence living in a chemical universe, therefore having a chemical, reactive experience. Learn to work with chemistry and the science of a good marriage will always lead to happy marriages.
Science of a good marriage - Part 2
The science of a good marriage can be shown in this next illustration. I replaced the walls with the two most powerful energies and I've labeled them as love and hate. Worldly love is the opposite of hate, same vibration, different frequency. In other words, if you have ever loved someone and then gone through a nasty divorce only for your ex to be your most hated person on the planet, then you know what I'm talking about.

True love, however, is at the top of the triangle. This is the type of love that I experienced on the 'other side' when I died. This love rarely exists on this planet. I strive for it every day and I'm getting glimpses here and there and I meditate A LOT to remain in remembrance of this true essence of love. The only way to achieve that kind of love is to transmute this worldly type of love and hate that most people experience here on Earth. The type of love that's at the top of the triangle is pure light. Perhaps I should refer to it as LIGHT, not love (because love so often gets misunderstood on this plane). The science of a good marriage is once again a calculated science, there is no chance, no fiddling around, no hoping - just working with Universal laws that always create the same thing: happy marriages.
Science of a good marriage - Part 3
So back to Twin Souls or partnerships that are perfect matches. Look at the next triangle.
This is everyone's dream and that of the people I talk to (and it's mine). When you are matched with the right partner you'll see that masculine and feminine have an equal energetic exchange. That is what the science of a good marriage creates. Because the energy exchange is equal and one of light the overflow (or result) of their union can't go anywhere but UP. Their union and love create the true unconditional type of love that is heavenly. They create a strand that is so thick and solid and unpenetrateable (if that's even a word) that no one dares to separate the two. This is where it has been said: "Let no man separate what God has has joined."

The science of a good marriage and their energy strand creates something so powerful and lasting that all of humanity benefits. You can look to Bill and Melinda Gates - they are such a couple (and I pray they stay together). Another example is Walter and Lao Russell who started the University of Science and Philosophy. Long after Walter and Lao have passed on the University remains to enrich those who come after them. Is what you're building with your loved one going to last?
Science of a good marriage - Part 4
When two people have found each other and they realize that their union has created the heavens to protect them within the power of the trinity, the two will do whatever it takes to protect the tip of the triangle: their ultimate light together. The tip of course becomes the center, especially when you add the second person triangle in an upside down way. This is the science of a good marriage in action. He loves and protects her with all of his might because in doing so he knows he protects the trinity of their union and the consciousness of humanity. Whatever his purpose in life he knows he can only reach and fulfill it through her.
Their union becomes their most important and of course that is the blessings which they are bringing to this planet. She protects him with her love and respect for him by letting him flow through her because when she does she knows she is protecting the tip of the trinity and thus they remain a most powerful piece to evolution for all humanity. She never withholds herself from him because she understands the power she holds to make or break him in doing so. She knows she's his conduit and she allows the flow to remain unrestricted. And their gift from heaven is the protective bubble of the trinity - it cannot be destroyed.
It's a tall order, I know. Because the science of a good marriage always results in happy marriages and one can only look at the statistic to see how far off we are as a human species. And perhaps many of you reading this don't quite understand what I'm saying. If you do, then you're being called to a much higher plane in relationship terms. Do sift through your relationships to see where you stand and if you can see this energetic 'mechanism' take place in some of your relationships; and do not merge with the wrong partner, the price is too high.
It is this type of connection, this type of love - because it is pure light, that can help raise others to a higher consciousness.

The Result: When the Science of a Good Marriage Results in Happy Marriages

This type of relationship never hurts, it never belittles, it never mistrusts, it doesn't cheat or steal from the other. It uplifts, it encourages, it builds, it strengthens, it trusts. Because true love never fails.
(Hint: If it failed then it wasn't heavenly love)
Before the science of a good marriage can take place, take a look at your relationships, all of them but especially the one you're having a physical exchange with (because that is the one that has the biggest impact on your soul's well being).